Why high-performing women lose desire when business slows down
Right now, how you think your business is going determines whether you have sex…or not.
Whether you let yourself open…or close.
Whether you allow vulnerability…or retreat behind perfecting the strategy, duping yourself into believing you’ll “get into that later.”
When everything’s flowing – the clients, the money, the momentum – you’re flying high: Initiating intimacy, proposing interesting nights out and bringing spark, presence, and aliveness into every interaction with them.
You’re turned on by life. By success…and they feel it.
But the moment success wobbles – when the launch slows, the money doesn’t match your expectations, or the offer falls flat – you withhold.
You go quiet. Straight to the sanctity of your head that's compelled to dissect why it played out this way and what to do better next time so you can avoid this less-than feeling.
Sure, you give them the CliffsNotes on what happened, but underneath that conversation, you’ve already shut down emotionally and erotically. You’ve already disconnected from the surge of aliveness that was so palpable when everything felt what you thought success was.
And this is the leak in your leadership you get to transcend – by learning how to lead yourself back into your body and your eroticism, even when things feel uncertain.
Especially when they feel uncertain.
Because your capacity to stay open to all versions of intimacy when things wobble – while most people shut down – is what sets you apart in these times.
It’s what gives you the erotic edge.
It’s the very quality that makes you ultra-magnetic in business…and turns your relationship into a space where you actually feel fully met, beyond just a meeting of the minds.
Until now, you’ve been your business’s bitch – letting it dictate what you feel, how you feel it, whether you do it or not and how you show up in the most sacred part of your life…with your partner catching the fallout every time the numbers don’t do their job of making you feel enough.
It’s time to reverse-engineer it.
To become the kind of leader who leverages intimacy as her unfair advantage – who lets how powerful and pleasure-filled she feels in her relationship become the true barometer of success.
That’s when your business submits, you reclaim your power, and the results rise to meet your erotic command.
If you’re ready to live from that level of power – not just for a moment, but as your standard – it’s time to step inside Velvet Ledger.
This is my 6-week private sanctum for women in business ready to lead with the full spectrum of their intelligence, eroticism, and influence…Where your erotic identity, business acumen, and deep hunger for more are no longer kept in separate rooms.
Because they’ve all one and the same.
We move differently in here, going beyond visibility and into vibrancy.
Beyond strategy and into seduction.
And the moment you stop segmenting your identity and start living from erotic integration – you don’t just turn heads. You live in a sustained state of turn on.
If you felt that – I’ll be here when you’re ready to stop pretending you didn’t.
